Category: Joyful Life

In Search of a True Leader

Science has now proven that emotions are “contagious,” so if you have been feeling extra stressed lately, you’re not alone. In keeping with our level of sensitivity, each of us experiences our own, personal challenges, along with the angst and confusion that can surround us during tumultuous times. Given these conditions, certain things become crucially […]

On Living with Scorpions, Sociopaths, and Sympathy

This morning as I was doing the dishes I caught sight of something wriggly falling into the water. Ploonk! What was that? On closer inspection, it turned out to be a small, surprised scorpion who promptly drowned in the dishwater. After my initial reaction of, “dear god, what am I doing in this god-forsaken place?” […]

Why Horses?

I’ve been fascinated by the idea that awe is an anti-inflammatory emotion. So many of our modern diseases (labels) involve inflammation – it’s easy to get caught up the world of interpersonal drama, high-rises, sub-divisions, cell-phones, road-rage, the nightly news (!) – and forget that there’s a larger world out there – nature – the […]

A Lesson in Letting Go: Parenting Matters

Yesterday my son went on his first roller coaster ride (he’s three). They don’t allow parents on the ride. But he really wanted to go! So off he went. I remember a friend years ago describing the process of raising her three boys. “Every day, a greater separation.” Oh no! I thought. Does it have […]

Do You Care what they Think? HSP in Relationship

One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced in my life involved dealing with one of my ex’s – a very difficult person. During our relationship. I had really let myself get jerked around by his anger, and his controlling ways. It took a lot for me to summon up the courage to stand up for […]

Want More Joy & Ease in your Relationships? Try these Skills from EFL

Relationships. The “final” and ever-evolving frontier. One person wants more space. The other wants more closeness. One feels easily crushed; the other seems insensitive and detached. At work it’s no better. A colleague praises your work to your face, then you find out he criticized you behind your back. Or, someone you’re relying on is […]